I really do appreciate the singing talent of these artists.  They are truly fine singers.  Miguel and his band were fun to watch. The dueling guitars were classic.

One thing I didn’t appreciate is the whole self serving, ego feeding attitude of Trey Songz.  After stripping out of his shirt, he actually asked the girls in the crowd “who wants to come home with me?” Of course all of the under 21 and ugly girls screamed. This and similar actions took away from his true artistic quality.

Usher is Usher. Can’t take anything away from him.  Still a little too much Michael Jackson in his steps for me. Also felt like a male strip show with his shirt off and giving a lap dance to a random J.A.P. from the crowd.

All in all, I’m happy I went.  Real singers don’t and should do that stuff.  Leave that to the Britney Spears of the world.

All I did was give them my credit card info and download the easy to install software and I was watching TV channels from all over the world.  Watching TV from 120, foreign countries is wild.  Its’ really interesting to experience other cultures from my desk.  For more info and to see what channels they have go here: Satellite TV for PC

The dates are Friday December 3rd and Saturday December 4th, 2010.

Warning, you and your friends may have been drunk. So, keep your sense of humor when you look at them.

All in all the weekend went very well.  The energy you girls brought was incredible.  Whenever I feel like not working, all it takes is a high energy, sexy crowd to get me going.  Thanks for making my night fun!

Being at Hunkmania, I meet  and chat with many woman from all walks of life.

Ladies, the fact is you really don’t know much about what it takes to attract a good man.

Goal: Happiness from love, sex and romance.

Problem: Our actions, thought and emotions, keep us in a state of “wanting“.

Do you imagine or have an idea in your mind of what that happy relationship looks like?  If not, take a minute, stop reading, close your eyes and visualize what a happy relationship, looks like and feels like.

Pause for visualization.

Now hold that picture in your mind. Think of that picture as your favorite, home cooked meal. The kind of meal where you make it from scratch. Every little ingredient you put in is fresh and affects the flavor of the meal. If you substitute and ingredient it will change the flavor completely.

So, how does this metaphor pertain to your relationship? I’ll explain.  The meal is your life. You are the chef. You choose the ingredients and determine what you put in to the mix.  This includes what you do and how you behave when you are single and casually dating. How you pass time, waiting for Mr. Right, creates who you are. If your true goal is to have that great relationship, be married and raise kids, then change your actions, friends, thoughts and pass times that will take you closer to and support your goal. If you say you want one thing and your actions say something else, we all know that “actions speak louder than words”.  That begs the question, “who’s listening?”.  The answer is simple. You unconscious mind.  Your unconscious mind, is the fire to the ingredients you put in your life recipe.

You are no longer allowed to blame the guy you’re with. You are the one who put him in your life and you are the one who can take him out. And, BTW… kissing a toad to turn him into a prince is in fairy tales. Don’t date jerks unless you want drama. As a matter of fact, I say if you date a jerk you are not really interested in a relationship at all.

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I invite your comments and questions for discussion, below.

LOL, yeah I said it. It’s very true though.

Last night a girl from “Europe” came by the strip club.  I wish I could post her picture here, but that’s not good for business.  “What happens at Hunkmania stays at Hunkmania”. She was around 24 and very attractive and  had her hands all over the strippers. Then she set her sights on me. She must have been ovulating or something, she was trying to jam her tongue in my mouth when I was giving her a lap dance.  Mind you, I am retied from that end of the business, but she wouldn’t take no for an answer when I refused to give her a dance.  So I obliged for a minute or two.  She had her hands all over me and tried kissing me. She was out for sex. I’m pretty sure she got some before nights end.

This is an interesting phenomenon to me. I first learned this from my teen years at spring break and pretty much any trip I’ve ever been on after that.  Girls act like guys, when no one they know is watching. That’s right, without the fear or consequence of being socially judged by her family and friends, she will really lets herself go.

It was truly a magical time for me too. Buses came from all over to see the Chippendales show in New York City.  I remember the first

night I worked there.  I was asked for my autograph several times.  Girls wanted me to sign the Chippendales calendar that I was not in.

This was an interesting phenomenon.

We averaged 200 girls on a Wednesdays, 400 on Thursdays, 800 on Fridays and 1200 on Saturdays.  It was insane!

I remember those days as if it were yesterday.

We are offering $100 off any male stripper, male strip club package all day Monday.  Call in and ask for details.

bathroom attendant!

So it was recently brought to my attention that our

bathroom attendant at our male strippers club looks like Johnny Depp.

You be the judge in this side by side comparison:

Johnny Depp Look a Like- Bathroom attendant

With a little bit of imagination, a lot of alcohol and a dimly

lit male strip club NYC bathroom, your fantasy can be a reality!